Following a massive security fuckup early in my cheating life, I started researching my book, How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress.
I had no idea what I was doing other than knowing my goal was to have sex. Having sex is easy for a woman, so it wasn’t…
What you need to know first and foremost is I’m a writer who cheats and not a cheater who writes. I write other things that are mostly boring, analytical, and bureaucratic. I am paid handsomely for that and the policy advice I provide to senior government decision makers. …
What do you do when you don’t plan on having consensual sex with a stranger but do anyway? How do you feel about it afterward? Anger? Shame? Regret? Self-loathing is the go-to emotion for women after enjoying illicit sex, but it doesn’t have to be like that. …
So what do you do with all that “stuff” when the affair is over? The contact list numbers, the pictures, the messages and emails, the chat app contents, your connections on socials, if you have them? Do you keep it all? Trash it? Do you block your ex?
I’d love…
Who am I kidding? I love toying with these assholes. But only for educational purpose! Your Faery Godmother of Adultery🧚🏻♀️ is only here to show those willing to learn, how not to communicate on dating sites if you’re trying to get laid.
Mr. Man — Your honesty is hilarious. I…
I’m not sure why I torture myself trying to understand Medium. I mostly don’t give a shit about Medium or what it does. I write things, or not, and they send me money, or not. For $5 a month, Medium has directly or indirectly grossed me about $12K.
Whateves.
I…
I came across a Reddit the other day and it got me thinking about the nature of affair love. Scrolling through the comments I found a man who decided to mansplain love to a woman with a recently broken heart. …
Give her a follow for more great work!
Here’s the link, because for some reason, it won’t pop up!
https://medium.com/ps-i-hate-you/struggling-4a7a431d8423
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In an environment were you probably aren’t going to get a response, you shouldn’t expect one!
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So yeah, 1799, but do you know what?
The Pen and Paper Projekt lifted me to the sky
She gave me a flicker of hope
Hope I could soar ever higher
Higher than ever I’d expected
Higher than ever I’d dreamt
Higher than ever I’d hoped
And for that?
I…
