You do! — Hiring an affair consultant may be one of the best decisions you ever make if you’re looking for a little something on the side and want it to go smoothly. And who is better than a cheater like me with years of researched-backed experience to help you find your match…

Thinking of having an affair? Start here — Following a massive security fuckup early in my cheating life, I started researching my book, How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress. I had no idea what I was doing other than knowing my goal was to have sex. Having sex is easy for a woman, so it wasn’t…

This is more about TJC than me — you’ll never know me — What you need to know first and foremost is I’m a writer who cheats and not a cheater who writes. I write other things that are mostly boring, analytical, and bureaucratic. I am paid handsomely for that and the policy advice I provide to senior government decision makers. …

Being good at one thing doesn’t make you good at everything — Men are overconfident most of the time. Successful men tend to suffer from overconfidence at rates higher than other men. The result is they have an overwhelming sense of their own ability to do everything. And that’s when they fall on their faces. This plagues most men. If Adam Levine…

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This isn’t the final word, so call it an update — As I begin hanging up my summer dresses and putting my shorts and sandals away this weekend, I’m really starting to miss the promise of summer. I think it was ok, but I really wanted it to be longer. The only person I didn’t get to have sex with this…

One more fuckit list experience struck off — When a man sleeps with a woman 30 years his junior, his friends slap him on the back. When Leo trades them in at 25, despite being 47, I’m sure Y chromosomes around the world cheer his prowess. But what happens when she fucks someone 30 years younger? …

Open Letter to Tony Stubblebine, Medium’s new CEO — Bottom line up front (I know you’re busy) Tony, I don’t think sex and sexuality authors are given the recognition they deserve on Medium, despite attracting and keeping a significant number of subscribers on the platform. With women’s rights under attack across the US today — medical autonomy, bodily autonomy, freedom of movement, reduced or eliminated access to…