The latest in my How to Cheat Series

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This is more about TJC than me — you’ll never know me

This isn’t me, but I love her (Photo:under licence from Shutterstock)


A cautionary tale for cheaters

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It’s about the work — not you

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Whose words were venom

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Having an affair was never my dream as a little girl but shit happens

A quote from Ashley Madison’s Facebook Page — I sent my first nude to the man who would be come my long-term affair partner-I was 47 but felt 20! I was so horny I couldn’t concentrate at work.” Ashley Madison Member Female, 50s, Canada.
A quote from Ashley Madison’s Facebook Page — I sent my first nude to the man who would be come my long-term affair partner-I was 47 but felt 20! I was so horny I couldn’t concentrate at work.” Ashley Madison Member Female, 50s, Canada.
(Screencap: Author via Ashley Madison on Facebook)


But he’s finally getting some swings in

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What he did


Using my personal journey to illustrate the perverse nature of white supremacy, structural discrimination & unconscious biases

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How did I discover I was a white supremacist?


…Should she keep doing it?

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A happy wife, happy life question on Quora!

  • 15 men / 2 women
  • 7 said yes and 10 said no
  • Women — 1 yes and 1 no
  • Men — 6 yes and 9 no

Teresa J Conway

Wife, mother, HR Magician, and mature adulteress. Edits for The Scarlett Letter, PSIHY, and Sexpressions. Wrote How to Cheat — Field Notes from an Adulteress.

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