Being good at one thing doesn’t make you good at everything — Men are overconfident most of the time. Successful men tend to suffer from overconfidence at rates higher than other men. The result is they have an overwhelming sense of their own ability to do everything. And that’s when they fall on their faces. This plagues most men. If Adam Levine…

You do! — Hiring an affair consultant may be one of the best decisions you ever make if you’re looking for a little something on the side and want it to go smoothly. And who is better than a cheater like me with years of researched-backed experience to help you find your match…

Thinking of having an affair? Start here — Following a massive security fuckup early in my cheating life, I started researching my book, How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress. I had no idea what I was doing other than knowing my goal was to have sex. Having sex is easy for a woman, so it wasn’t…

This is more about TJC than me — you’ll never know me — What you need to know first and foremost is I’m a writer who cheats and not a cheater who writes. I write other things that are mostly boring, analytical, and bureaucratic. I am paid handsomely for that and the policy advice I provide to senior government decision makers. …

My cheating chatbot chat — I finally got on the OpenAI’s GPT-3 and had a chat today, to test it out. I wanted to know if AI could help me write messages to women on Ashley Madison. …

What’s in a handle — I’ve been working with clients on Ashley Madison (AM) and connecting them with potential affair partners. My job is to open the door and get the convo going. I do that by building them a good profile first before going to messages. One client asked me if she’d really read…

This one can get people in trouble — I make a lot of money helping men use Ashley Madison to find the side piece of their dreams. In doing that, I’ve become an expert user, which is another reason to spend money on me. …

You’re boring — Is anyone else getting tired of Prince Harry the Whiner, Earl of Santa Barbara, and 5th in line of succession to the House of Windsor, going on and on? And don’t you get the feeling it’s more about $$ and revenge than anything else? If leaks from his new book…

The second Monday of the New Year sees a wild spike — Are you ready to get your affair on? According to a study by the married dating site Gleeden, the second Monday in January sees huge enrolment on their app. One year, it was 320% over their normal daily subscription rate. Why? The party’s over, New Year’s resolutions begin to wane…