Why I wrote — How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress

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Following a massive security fuckup early in my cheating life, I started researching my book, How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress.

I had no idea what I was doing other than knowing my goal was to have sex. Having sex is easy for a woman, so it wasn’t just sex, but…