This is more about TJC than me — you’ll never know me — What you need to know first and foremost is I’m a writer who cheats and not a cheater who writes. I write other things that are mostly boring, analytical, and bureaucratic. I am paid handsomely for that and the policy advice I provide to senior government decision makers. Sorry, but…

I finally met the first time cheater I’m giving my pussy to — As you know, this is the dawn of my slut summer! The summer I should have had 30 years ago. A summer where I decide when and where I‘ll have sex, and with whom. When I was in my 20s I was trapped in a string of dissatisfying relationships that…

She responded & disappeared — now what? — What do you write to a lady who’s responded to your opening message but didn’t come back after your second? My first and best advice is to wait a few days. A client asked if I had some generic responses to go back with when a lady on Ashley Madison…

Standing apart from the crowd is the only way to be seen on a dating site — I mention these three tips to my clients early on. Clients? Yes, clients who pay me to review their profiles and draft their opening messages. Why do they pay me? After reviewing 1000s of Ashley Madison (AM) profiles, I know what works and what doesn’t. This is equally true of…

Did you wish your lover a Happy Mothers’ Day? — Mothers’ Day is a lot of things to many people: people who didn’t like their mom so much have mixed feelings, people who loved their moms dig it, and husbands don’t always know what to do. And neither do our male affair partners (AP). A Redditor on r/adultery — Just…

Cheating has made me the 2.0 version of myself — The following story was written by Dark Horse|Dating Coach, from the UK. He provided me this story for The Scarlett Letter, with his permission. Dark Horse can be found on Twitter as @chhandbook and a link to his Blog Cheater’s Handbook is at the bottom. Dark Horse is a serial…

Stories from r/adultery — where the dirty people are — When Throwaway123 asked Reddit about office affairs, she opened with the observation that most people on r/adultery don’t recommend it. So why did she have one? Well, she began her affair before finding the sub-Reddit. Not everyone is clinical about having an affair like I was. I decided to cheat…

A tale of three men — a Patriarch, a Pig, and a Professor — The Patriarch I’ve been kicking around the idea of doing an OnlyFriends account to show off my bits as part of my sexually liberated summer of 2022. I do want to show people my lady parts. Of course, they’d have to pay for it, but that’s all part of the fun. As…

Back to square one on the dating scene — and failing — Trying to find a new sexy friend is a pain in the ass. By find, I mean to find one that’s right for me. If I wanted to jump on any old cock I could probably find one today and fuck it tomorrow, but that’s not my scene. I created…