Being good at one thing doesn’t make you good at everything — Men are overconfident most of the time. Successful men tend to suffer from overconfidence at rates higher than other men. The result is they have an overwhelming sense of their own ability to do everything. And that’s when they fall on their faces. This plagues most men. If Adam Levine…

You do! — Hiring an affair consultant may be one of the best decisions you ever make if you’re looking for a little something on the side and want it to go smoothly. And who is better than a cheater like me with years of researched-backed experience to help you find your match…

Thinking of having an affair? Start here — Following a massive security fuckup early in my cheating life, I started researching my book, How to Cheat: Field Notes from an Adulteress. I had no idea what I was doing other than knowing my goal was to have sex. Having sex is easy for a woman, so it wasn’t…

This is more about TJC than me — you’ll never know me — What you need to know first and foremost is I’m a writer who cheats and not a cheater who writes. I write other things that are mostly boring, analytical, and bureaucratic. I am paid handsomely for that and the policy advice I provide to senior government decision makers. …

The Unexpected Allure in Secret Liaisons — It’s easy to get a little lazy with a longer-term affair partner. The magic might not wear off completely, but it dims, which I think is normal. But then, you catch a glimpse of the person you first fell for and, phew! That’s what I’m talking about! …

If you read a story that reads like this, AI wrote it. — AI wrote this story. Now, I cheated and said I wanted it to maximize the use of adjectives and flowery and effusive language. In my experience, AI doesn’t need much encouragement to do that. So when you’re on here, reading something that’s just too good or too beautiful — AI…

The emotional fallout of being ghosted — Ghosting — the abrupt end to communication without explanation. It’s a term that’s become familiar to digital daters, and cheaters aren’t exempt. But what happens when ghosting leaves you with more questions than closure, and a social media deep dive reveals truths you weren’t prepared for? For cheaters, the emotional…

Finding happiness behind the mask — In a long-term marriage, happiness often masks our desires and complexities. The following discussion provides insight into such a marriage. The original poster (OP), a 40-year-old woman, admits to infidelity throughout her 16-year marriage. …

It would be better than cheating, but I’ll never get there — This one comes up sometimes, and it hurts a little if I’m honest. I’d love to have it all, and cheating has let me flirt with that. Yet, the axe is always overhead, waiting to fall. As a cheater, I know I’m only as good as my last lie. “Monogamy…